Desire to not Desire

Desires, oh those slippery little suckers that have a way of sneaking up on us when we least expect it. You know the feeling – you’re minding your own business, doing your thing, and suddenly, there it is, that unmistakable craving for something you know you probably shouldn’t have. It’s like a constant tug-of-war between what you want and what you know is good for you.

Sarah Dessen wasn’t kidding when she talked about that weak spot we all seem to have. It’s like we’re these tough cookies in every other aspect of life, but when it comes to that one thing, that one desire that seems to have a mind of its own, we just can’t seem to resist. It’s like we’re wired to want more, more of everything – more success, more love, more adventure, you name it.

Being neutral to ourselves? Ha, that’s like trying to convince a cat to take a bath – it’s not happening. We’re a bunch of walking contradictions, constantly striving for contentment while simultaneously lusting after every little thing that catches our eye. It’s like we’ve got this insatiable appetite for life, always reaching for the next big thing, even when we’re not sure why we want it in the first place.

So, how do we find that elusive balance, that sweet spot between chasing our desires and being content with what we have? How do we resist the allure of that extra slice of cake or that shiny new toy, knowing full well that indulging might not be the best idea? It’s like trying to resist the urge to binge-watch your favorite TV show on a lazy Sunday afternoon – tough as nails.

Maybe the answer lies in finding joy in the little things, in the simple pleasures of life that don’t cost a dime but can make your heart sing. It’s about learning to appreciate the everyday moments, the quiet whispers of happiness that often go unnoticed in the hustle and bustle of our busy lives. It’s about understanding that while desires are a natural part of being human, true contentment comes from embracing the present and finding fulfillment in the here and now.

So here’s to embracing our desires while also keeping them in check, to savoring the sweetness of life without overindulging, and to finding that sweet spot where happiness and contentment go hand in hand. After all, in this wild and crazy ride we call life, it’s the little moments that often leave the biggest impact. Cheers to that!